Comments on: Personal Centers Collide http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/ a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding... Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:27:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: Jenny http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1409 Jenny Sun, 11 Nov 2007 02:18:30 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1409 Jean, Great links thanks for putting them up! Jean,
Great links thanks for putting them up!

]]> By: Jenny http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1408 Jenny Sun, 11 Nov 2007 02:17:06 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1408 Hey Pippa, Relationship centered huh? I do so understand :p There's light! Thanks for checking in - more coming very soon! Hey Pippa,
Relationship centered huh? I do so understand :p

There’s light! Thanks for checking in - more coming very soon!

]]> By: Pippa http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1361 Pippa Thu, 08 Nov 2007 09:19:26 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1361 Aaargh! It took me weeks to think these last two posts through, and I have to finally face the fact that I am definitely relationship-centered. Somehow this makes me feel at a disadvantage to ANY of the other centers. Please write something soon to help, Jenny! There must be light somewhere... :) Aaargh! It took me weeks to think these last two posts through, and I have to finally face the fact that I am definitely relationship-centered. Somehow this makes me feel at a disadvantage to ANY of the other centers.

Please write something soon to help, Jenny! There must be light somewhere… :)

]]> By: Jean Browman--Transforming Stress http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1336 Jean Browman--Transforming Stress Mon, 05 Nov 2007 19:56:58 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1336 Since you're talking about emotional/spiritual maturity now, you might like <a href="http:///stresstopower.com/blog/2007/11/04/living-more-fully/" rel="nofollow">Living More Fully</a> and <a href="http://stresstopower.com/blog/traits-of-stress-hardy-resilient-people/" rel="nofollow">Traits of Stress-Hardy, Resilient People</a>. This is a topic near and dear to my heart. Thanks. Since you’re talking about emotional/spiritual maturity now, you might like Living More Fully and Traits of Stress-Hardy, Resilient People.

This is a topic near and dear to my heart. Thanks.

]]> By: Jenny http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1263 Jenny Wed, 31 Oct 2007 03:08:18 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1263 Hey Tina, Thanks for your comment and for stopping by. Hey Tina,
Thanks for your comment and for stopping by.

]]> By: Tina Su http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1262 Tina Su Tue, 30 Oct 2007 18:58:11 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1262 What a great idea. I really enjoy the content of your blog. Keep up the awesome work. Love & Gratitude, Tina Think Simple. Be Decisive. ~ Productivity, Motivation & Happiness What a great idea. I really enjoy the content of your blog. Keep up the awesome work.

Love & Gratitude,
Tina
Think Simple. Be Decisive.
~ Productivity, Motivation & Happiness

]]> By: Jenny http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1260 Jenny Tue, 30 Oct 2007 11:03:43 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1260 Jason, great point! You're right I certainly did miss it - what a blind spot! ;) Liara, you make many good points particularly in the reminder that we are all growing at different rates in life and it's important to choose based on where one's current understanding lies. Jason, great point! You’re right I certainly did miss it - what a blind spot! ;)

Liara, you make many good points particularly in the reminder that we are all growing at different rates in life and it’s important to choose based on where one’s current understanding lies.

]]> By: Liara Covert http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1258 Liara Covert Mon, 29 Oct 2007 09:37:57 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1258 How you view your Centre and those of others is based on your judgment and life experience as well as assumptions about experience you imagine. People don't always see eye-to-eye. Each person is evolving at a particular pace. How we live and learn can sometimes cause us to feel we "outgrow" some of our friends, partners or other acquaintances. All partnerships and friendships can teach us. Where people decide that change is an opportunity to learn from each other, they can also choose to grow together or grow as the result of parting ways. Each choice can be healthy. You need to decide what works best for you, based on your evolving sense of compatibiity and self-understanding. Each person needs to as "what do I want? and what can I give?" How you view your Centre and those of others is based on your judgment and life experience as well as assumptions about experience you imagine. People don’t always see eye-to-eye. Each person is evolving at a particular pace. How we live and learn can sometimes cause us to feel we “outgrow” some of our friends, partners or other acquaintances.

All partnerships and friendships can teach us. Where people decide that change is an opportunity to learn from each other, they can also choose to grow together or grow as the result of parting ways. Each choice can be healthy. You need to decide what works best for you, based on your evolving sense of compatibiity and self-understanding. Each person needs to as “what do I want? and what can I give?”

]]> By: Jason http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1257 Jason Mon, 29 Oct 2007 07:31:41 +0000 http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/10/personal-centers-collide/#comment-1257 Something you didn't mention is the innate tendency to assume that all others share your same Center... and thus sometimes badly mistake how they will react to certain events and circumstances. This is not just for your significant other, this is true with everyone you meet who does not share your primary Center. And even when they do... your previous experiences may alter the view from that Center enough for your reactions to the same situation to be considerably different. Something you didn’t mention is the innate tendency to assume that all others share your same Center… and thus sometimes badly mistake how they will react to certain events and circumstances. This is not just for your significant other, this is true with everyone you meet who does not share your primary Center. And even when they do… your previous experiences may alter the view from that Center enough for your reactions to the same situation to be considerably different.

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