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	<description>a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding...</description>
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		<title>By: Reiki Help Blog &#187; Soul bravery</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-14805</link>
		<dc:creator>Reiki Help Blog &#187; Soul bravery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Oct 2008 13:01:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] prompted by Jenny and Erin specifically in The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Ever Done and earlier when Understanding Courage was explored. Thanks for tagging, challenging and asking me. Taking responsibility is plenty [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] prompted by Jenny and Erin specifically in The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Ever Done and earlier when Understanding Courage was explored. Thanks for tagging, challenging and asking me. Taking responsibility is plenty [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Reiki Help Blog &#187; Soul bravery</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1867</link>
		<dc:creator>Reiki Help Blog &#187; Soul bravery</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 20:52:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1867</guid>
		<description>[...] prompted by Jenny and Erin specifically in The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Ever Done and earlier when Understanding Courage was explored. Thanks for tagging, challenging and asking me.Taking responsibility is plenty [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] prompted by Jenny and Erin specifically in The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Ever Done and earlier when Understanding Courage was explored. Thanks for tagging, challenging and asking me.Taking responsibility is plenty [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Jenny and Erin &#8212; a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1115</link>
		<dc:creator>Jenny and Erin &#8212; a tongue-in-cheek quest for understanding&#8230;</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Oct 2007 22:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1115</guid>
		<description>[...] Pippa&#8217;s Porch The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Done, by John Allison at Technology for Living Understanding Courage   Share this article with others: These icons link to social bookmarking sites where readers can [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Pippa&#8217;s Porch The Bravest Thing I&#8217;ve Done, by John Allison at Technology for Living Understanding Courage   Share this article with others: These icons link to social bookmarking sites where readers can [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1067</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 18:47:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1067</guid>
		<description>Doing the right thing even when it's hard... being your true self no matter who you're around or what circumstances you're in right now... letting go of the walls that you build because you're scared of being hurt... stepping up to the plate when you're called, not avoiding or delaying... there are a lot of things that contribute to it, but they all sort of boil down  to one thing:  teach yourself to always respond with internal honesty and integrity.  When you do that, when that becomes the way that you ALWAYS respond, there is no hesitation when a new circumstance comes up (requiring reflex courage), because there is no wavering on what your response will be... you already know, both consciously and at a deeper level.

And in all honesty, that's &lt;i&gt;exactly&lt;/i&gt; the same thing that teaches you life courage.  Once you learn to ALWAYS, every single time, respond according to who you really are, there is no alternative to courage.  It's only when you sometimes are untrue to yourself that doubt and fear creep in, and the more often you are untrue to yourself, the more and the easier those two things work their way into your life.

I think I'm going to write an article on that soon... that really came from deep, deep down inside of me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doing the right thing even when it&#8217;s hard&#8230; being your true self no matter who you&#8217;re around or what circumstances you&#8217;re in right now&#8230; letting go of the walls that you build because you&#8217;re scared of being hurt&#8230; stepping up to the plate when you&#8217;re called, not avoiding or delaying&#8230; there are a lot of things that contribute to it, but they all sort of boil down  to one thing:  teach yourself to always respond with internal honesty and integrity.  When you do that, when that becomes the way that you ALWAYS respond, there is no hesitation when a new circumstance comes up (requiring reflex courage), because there is no wavering on what your response will be&#8230; you already know, both consciously and at a deeper level.</p>
<p>And in all honesty, that&#8217;s <i>exactly</i> the same thing that teaches you life courage.  Once you learn to ALWAYS, every single time, respond according to who you really are, there is no alternative to courage.  It&#8217;s only when you sometimes are untrue to yourself that doubt and fear creep in, and the more often you are untrue to yourself, the more and the easier those two things work their way into your life.</p>
<p>I think I&#8217;m going to write an article on that soon&#8230; that really came from deep, deep down inside of me.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1059</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 01:12:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1059</guid>
		<description>Jason, okay I see what you are saying. What kind of things do you think help build reflex courage?

Pamir, very nicely said. I think many people have thought they found life courage, only to turn the corner and have it gone. I don't know if I believe life courage never leaves. I think it's more like learning calculus, if you don't practice and utilize your skills often, they fade.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason, okay I see what you are saying. What kind of things do you think help build reflex courage?</p>
<p>Pamir, very nicely said. I think many people have thought they found life courage, only to turn the corner and have it gone. I don&#8217;t know if I believe life courage never leaves. I think it&#8217;s more like learning calculus, if you don&#8217;t practice and utilize your skills often, they fade.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1043</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2007 20:41:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You actually have what I mean backwards.  What I'm saying is that if you want to be sure that you have reflex courage when it counts, you have to live your life in a way that builds up that courage all the time, not just in that moment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You actually have what I mean backwards.  What I&#8217;m saying is that if you want to be sure that you have reflex courage when it counts, you have to live your life in a way that builds up that courage all the time, not just in that moment.</p>
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		<title>By: Pamir</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1031</link>
		<dc:creator>Pamir</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 19:11:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erin, perhaps thread wasn't the best word. I simply meant that authentic 'life' courage once awakened &#38; established simply becomes part of you, never to leave. It becomes core &#38; is always present no matter what life brings. It's beyond habit, becoming part of the fabric of your being. A central resource, worldview, core value, spring of all actions.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin, perhaps thread wasn&#8217;t the best word. I simply meant that authentic &#8216;life&#8217; courage once awakened &amp; established simply becomes part of you, never to leave. It becomes core &amp; is always present no matter what life brings. It&#8217;s beyond habit, becoming part of the fabric of your being. A central resource, worldview, core value, spring of all actions.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1029</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 18:03:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jason, hmm, okay I see where you are going with this. I would argue it doesn't necessarily come over a lifetime. For example, when one is younger they often have a stronger sense of reflex courage because they may not have as much to "lose" (family, career, etc). Often, as people become more rooted in life, or hesistant in their abilities, this courage fades. Yes, with time we can build it up and consciously focus on doing so, however, to say it grows over a lifetime may not always be true.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jason, hmm, okay I see where you are going with this. I would argue it doesn&#8217;t necessarily come over a lifetime. For example, when one is younger they often have a stronger sense of reflex courage because they may not have as much to &#8220;lose&#8221; (family, career, etc). Often, as people become more rooted in life, or hesistant in their abilities, this courage fades. Yes, with time we can build it up and consciously focus on doing so, however, to say it grows over a lifetime may not always be true.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1028</link>
		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 16:55:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You misunderstood me.  I'm not saying you do things to practice reflex courage daily.  I'm saying you work on it daily by being the kind of person who has it.  You have to have the beliefs that cause you to have that courage, and you have to live your life according to those beliefs.

Reflex courage doesn't come in a moment, it comes over a lifetime.  It's just the visible expression that is displayed in a moment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You misunderstood me.  I&#8217;m not saying you do things to practice reflex courage daily.  I&#8217;m saying you work on it daily by being the kind of person who has it.  You have to have the beliefs that cause you to have that courage, and you have to live your life according to those beliefs.</p>
<p>Reflex courage doesn&#8217;t come in a moment, it comes over a lifetime.  It&#8217;s just the visible expression that is displayed in a moment.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
		<link>http://jenny-and-erin.com/2007/09/understanding-courage/#comment-1027</link>
		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Oct 2007 15:40:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wonder what the ramifications of using the "wrong" type of courage for a situation might be. For example, you are given a situation in life that requires thought and understanding. Rather than approaching it with life courage you take quick action and use reflex courage. I know there are the incidences when the opposite occurs too. I realize I must have left out a prelude step to both types of courage which would be assessing what approach to take. 

Liara, I agree that the best way to harness courage is to have successes in one's own life. Those steps, especially the first big ones, can be very intimidating. I have found without regular practice, progress towards cultivating courage in one's one life can decline. I can think of years where almost everything I did was amazingly courageous and vice versa. Like most powers, it seems to build of itself.

Jason, yes, I suppose you need to work on reflex courage daily. However, many of us aren't typically faced with incidences that need reflex courage. I suppose visualization can help, but difficult when you are unsure what you are going to encounter.

Pamir, I hadn't thought of life courage as a continuous thread, but you do have a point. To create this thread, however, would you argue you have to consciously go through the self awareness steps for each thread? ie I'm going to be honest, is this a conscious step? Then does it become a habit or is every instance courage? Would this actually fit in a seperate category?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wonder what the ramifications of using the &#8220;wrong&#8221; type of courage for a situation might be. For example, you are given a situation in life that requires thought and understanding. Rather than approaching it with life courage you take quick action and use reflex courage. I know there are the incidences when the opposite occurs too. I realize I must have left out a prelude step to both types of courage which would be assessing what approach to take. </p>
<p>Liara, I agree that the best way to harness courage is to have successes in one&#8217;s own life. Those steps, especially the first big ones, can be very intimidating. I have found without regular practice, progress towards cultivating courage in one&#8217;s one life can decline. I can think of years where almost everything I did was amazingly courageous and vice versa. Like most powers, it seems to build of itself.</p>
<p>Jason, yes, I suppose you need to work on reflex courage daily. However, many of us aren&#8217;t typically faced with incidences that need reflex courage. I suppose visualization can help, but difficult when you are unsure what you are going to encounter.</p>
<p>Pamir, I hadn&#8217;t thought of life courage as a continuous thread, but you do have a point. To create this thread, however, would you argue you have to consciously go through the self awareness steps for each thread? ie I&#8217;m going to be honest, is this a conscious step? Then does it become a habit or is every instance courage? Would this actually fit in a seperate category?</p>
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